This week’s piece is on refusal. Not as a reaction, not as burnout, but as something structural.
Most of what we’re carrying isn’t random. It’s expected, normalized, and unevenly distributed. And without refusal, it doesn’t change. Not because we don’t care, but because we keep holding it.
This one goes deeper into: what’s actually happening, why it keeps landing on women, and what shifts when we stop carrying it the same way. Read it when you have space.
And if something in it lands, you don’t have to process it alone.