Does not just come from mom it comes from self. Realizing how much of mom is in us. The things we don't like about her and the things we admire about her. But the things that shaped us as a whole. DO you know you picked that lady to be your womg carrier. Yes your re-entry soul picked her from another one of your life times when you knew her. She could have been a sister in a pass life, a auntie, a grandma, a god mother, and you saw something in her that you wanted to learn. You wanted to be in her to be her to grow with her. It is the life you chose, we don't know this because a lot of us are stuck blaming MOM for every little thing that goes wrong in life and never look for the lesson. (Lesson to Leasting the burden of not knowing) We grow with each one we learn from and it never stops. The most hurting part about growing is not getting the healing the firs time. That is when we find our self in aloop. The loop of going through the same problems or lessons with other people in different bodys, places, and time. A lot of us don't even want to do the shadow work to even know who we were and who are to become. Plenty of time we ask the question what am I doing here, or what is my purpose to being here. Then the other question why is she my mom. We start picking on her and picking away at her. But we never want to do the work our selves to know why.