Here's advice that can actually move the needle for you when it comes to showing up on video:
Stop trying to be good. Start trying to be real.
"Good" on camera is a performance.
The moment you start performing, your audience can feel it,
Something feels slightly off.
Slightly stiff.
Slightly like you're reading from a script in your head.
This is ๐ right here ๐ "Real" on camera is a conversation. You're not presenting to an audience โ you're talking to ONE person.
You're thinking out loud. You're sharing something you genuinely care about.
The women who build loyal followings on video aren't the most polished. They trip over words. They pause to think. They laugh at themselves. And their audience loves them because of that, not in spite of it.
Authenticity is not a buzzword. It's a strategy.
Before your next video, say this out loud: "I'm not performing. I'm having a conversation."