Tidda, This is something I’ve been sitting with deeply. For so long, I thought purpose was something I had to find. Chase. Prove. Earn. Achieve. But what if purpose isn’t something out there waiting for you? What if it’s something you become? What if the shift isn’t discovering your purpose…but deciding to embody it? When you become your own purpose, something powerful happens: You stop waiting to be chosen. You stop outsourcing your direction. You stop measuring your worth by outcomes. You become the seed. The seed doesn’t panic about the forest or bush. It roots itself first. It nourishes itself first. It grows because growth is its nature. This is Warrior Heart work. It’s not about hustle. It's not about proving. It's not about chasing clarity until you feel ready. It’s about choosing to become the source of your own life. From that place: • Leadership feels grounded, not performative. • Self-care becomes non-negotiable, not selfish .• Wealth becomes regenerative, not extractive. • Impact flows from wholeness, not depletion. Becoming your own purpose means you are no longer living in reaction to life. You are creating from alignment. And I want to ask you something: If you stopped searching…and started becoming… What would change? Where are you still waiting to be given permission? What would it look like to root before you rise? Share below what’s coming up for you. Let’s yarn it through.

This is about the journey. The arena I choose. The season I’m walking through. A quiet chapter from "Suicide to World Champion" — my story, manifest, mandate and movement. Releasing November 2026. I’m realising more and more that this was never about competition. Not really. Jiu-Jitsu was about therapy, playtime and training. Entrepreneurship became about finding a way through for family, journey, responsibilities, impact, income ajd influence. Jiu-Jitsu and entrepreneurship have just been the arenas. The places where truth shows up quickly and without apology. The places that don’t let me hide from myself. The mat tells me immediately when I’ve lost my base. Business does the same, just slower and sometimes crueller. Both ask me to stay present when I want to escape. Both show me where I rush, where I grip too tight, where I abandon myself trying to make something work. In this season, I’m not chasing outcomes. I’m paying attention.To my nervous system.To my patterns. To the moments where old survival instincts whisper that I need to prove something to be worthy of being here. I’ve lived whole lifetimes in survival.I know what it’s like to build from nothing, to fight my way out of darkness, to win titles and still feel hollow inside. I also know what it’s like to almost not make it at all. This chapter isn’t about medals or milestones. It’s about becoming the woman who can hold the Dream without breaking herself in the process. Jiu-Jitsu keeps asking me to breathe when I want to panic. Business keeps asking me to trust when nothing is guaranteed. Life keeps asking me to soften without losing my strength. I’m learning that power doesn’t come from forcing. It comes from staying grounded. From choosing integrity over urgency. From building a base that can carry the weight of what I’m calling in. I don’t want to win at the cost of myself anymore. I want to arrive whole. This feels like one of those quiet chapters people skip over when they read the finished story.