Hey guys, Im really looking forward to our call tomorrow. I appreciate your guys wisdom so much. I love being challenged in my thinking - it was so great unpacking the fear of the Lord last week. I've been pondering the comment "I wouldn't want my kids to fear me, I'd want them to love and respect me. Looking forward to continuing in proverbs 1 tomorrow. Man there is some more gems for fathering in there and some real challenges arounnd complacency.

Hey guys, I'm building the next free resource for the community and I want your thoughts on it. I've been reading a book called the 7 habits of highly effective families and thought it would be cool to share some of the key ideas I've learnt so far. Which of these would actually help you most right now? Vote below, and the winner gets built first. 1. The Family Mirror Why: You didn't choose your family culture, it was handed to you. Most dads are running the same patterns their own father ran without realizing it, and their kids are absorbing it right now. What it involves: A guided audit that helps you identify your current family culture and one specific reframe to shift from criticism-based reactions to strengths-based responses. Outcome: By the end of the week, you'll have named one inherited pattern, made one intentional deposit into your family's emotional bank account, and felt the atmosphere at home shift. 2. The Pause Button Why: You lose it with your kids, feel like a hypocrite afterward, and wonder why you keep repeating the same moment you swore you'd handle differently this time. What it involves: A 3-step reset practice (Stop. Breathe. Choose.) with a real-time trigger cue you can use in the next hard moment, not in theory, in the actual moment. Outcome: Within 5 days, you'll have caught yourself before reacting at least once. Your kid will have seen a different version of their dad. 3.The family vision builder Why: You're showing up every day but you're not sure what you're building toward. No shared direction, no family identity, just surviving the week and hoping it adds up to something. What it involves: A family questioning exercise that you can do around the dinner table that walks you toward one clear sentence your whole family can actually remember, not a corporate mission statement, a real anchor. Outcome: By the end of the week, your family will have one sentence that defines who you're becoming together.

Have you ever wanted to step out to try something new, but everytime you have the idea you just can't seem to take the first step. Maybe it's teaching your kids about money, deciding when to have the talk about the birds and the bees for the first time, changing a routine in your family to try make your day more effient, or maybe something bigger like starting a business or a side hustle. Whatever your idea, the hardest part is usually starting. Whats an idea that you have that you would like to act on but keep stalling before you begin? Share below, I'd love to hear.