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Founding Member Beta — Free for 30 Days
I’m opening Transformed At Sea to a small group of people ready to stop restarting their health goals. You’ll complete the 30-Day Identity Reset, receive community accountability, and help shape the program. In return, I ask for honest participation, weekly check-ins, and feedback. After the beta, founding members can continue at a special locked-in rate of $19/month.
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What This Community Is
Transformed at Sea is a community for people who are done starting over. We don't fix habits, we rebuild identity. If you want change that actually holds, you're in the right place. Everything here is built on the Bishay Reality Framework™: Identity, then Behavior, then Evidence. Change the person underneath the behavior, and the choices change on their own. What you get as a member ($19/month): • The full 8-module Identity Transformation Workbook • All classroom lessons and exercises • A community doing the same honest work • Member discussions, reflections and new resources How to begin: 1. Take the free PERSONAL REALITY ASSESSMENT™ (your Identity Audit): https://transformedatsea.com/identity-audit 2. Start the Welcome lesson in the Classroom. 3. Introduce yourself in the community. Want to go deeper? Personal coaching, workbook submission evaluation and personalised coaching reports are available separately through transformedatsea.com. Start with the workbook. Gather evidence. See what changes.
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Start here — the full story and your three ways in
Welcome. Transformed at Sea is a community for people who are done starting over. We don't fix habits, we rebuild identity. If you want change that actually holds, you're in the right place. I lost 85 pounds in 8 months living full-time on a cruise ship. Buffets. Bars. Every excuse built in. Not from a diet. Not from willpower. From becoming someone the old patterns no longer fit. 8 MONTHS. ONE DECISION. DISCIPLINE OVER MOTIVATION. 345 lbs: October 2025 260 lbs: June 2026 This group teaches the lens I used to do it. Why Identity? Because identity drives behavior. When your identity shifts, your habits follow automatically. What "identity transformation" actually means Most programs try to change your behavior. They give you a meal plan, a workout, a 30-day sprint. You follow it for a while. Then life gets hard, and you go back to who you were. This is different. We start with the person underneath the behavior. When the identity changes, the choices change on their own. You stop needing to "stay motivated." You just start acting like the person you actually are now. The framework has three parts: • Identity: who you believe you are • Behavior: what you do because of that belief • Evidence: the small daily proof that reinforces the new identity Every lesson and every prompt inside this group uses that same lens. Who this is for Adults done with diet cycles and starting over. You want the change to actually hold this time, because it is coming from a different identity, not tighter rules. Not for Meal plans. Macros. Medical advice. Or 30-day white-knuckle programs. If that is what you are looking for, this is not the right place. Your $19/month membership includes: • The full 8-module Identity Transformation Workbook • All classroom lessons and exercises • Transformed at Sea community access • Member discussions, reflections and new resources • Work through it at your own pace Want to go deeper? Personal coaching, workbook submission evaluation and personalised coaching reports are available separately through transformedatsea.com
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PATTERN: I abandon my health plan after a stressful day.
Event: My workday ran late and I came home exhausted. Meaning: “Today is already ruined. I deserve a break.” Action: Ordered takeout and skipped my walk. Immediate payoff: Relief; no decision-making; temporary comfort. Possible agreement: “When I am stressed, comfort matters more than the promise I made to myself.” New evidence action: Take a 10-minute walk before deciding what to eat.
Most people try to fix the behaviour first.
They promise themselves they will eat better, exercise, stop procrastinating, speak up, or finally follow through. But repeated behaviour usually has a pattern underneath it. Inside the Identity Transformation Workbook, you learn to investigate: Event → Meaning → Action → Immediate Payoff Example: Event: My workday ran late and I came home exhausted. Meaning: “Today is already ruined. I deserve a break.” Action: Ordered takeout and skipped my walk. Immediate payoff: Relief, no decision-making, temporary comfort. Possible agreement: “When I am stressed, comfort matters more than the promise I made to myself.” New evidence action: Take a 10-minute walk before deciding what to eat. This is not about shame or forcing motivation. It is about seeing the pattern clearly enough to build a different response. Inside the full program, you will use this process to identify your own recurring pattern and create evidence for the person you are becoming.
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Free 30-Day Beta for adults done restarting weight-loss and health goals. Build lasting habits with identity, accountability, and daily action.
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