Between work, kids, and everything that needs to get done, it’s easy to give your spouse whatever attention is left. But you can make a little room today. Jesus calls us to love one another as He has loved us (John 13:34). Tonight, let that love take a practical shape. Put your phone down and ask: “How can I support you this week?” Listen. Ask a follow-up question. Then choose one thing you can follow through on. A good marriage is worth growing and today gives you another opportunity to love each other well. What’s one small thing your spouse does that helps you feel loved? Share below. 👇

The strongest marriages are not the ones without hard days. They are the ones where two imperfect people keep choosing each other. Choosing patience. Choosing forgiveness. Choosing connection. Choosing to remember, “We are on the same team.” Be encouraged today. God can strengthen what feels weak, soften what feels tense, and restore what feels distant. Your marriage is worth fighting for.

A strong marriage doesn’t happen by accident. It’s built by getting the right things in the right order. Here are 3 priorities I believe every husband needs to get right: 3️⃣ PRIORITIZE YOUR HEALTH Mental. Physical. Spiritual. Your wife shouldn’t have to carry the weight of a version of you that refuses to take care of himself. Take care of your mind. Take care of your body. Take care of your soul. Get help when you need it. Go to the gym. Eat better. Rest. Pray. Get in the Word. Being a good husband starts with taking responsibility for the man you’re becoming. 2️⃣ PRIORITIZE YOUR WIFE Make her your person. Not golf. Not the gym. Not your hobbies. Not your career. And yes—even your kids shouldn’t replace your marriage. Your kids need to see a dad who loves their mom. Date her. Pursue her. Listen to her. Protect time with her. Don’t give everyone else the best of you and bring your wife whatever is left. She’s not supposed to compete for your attention. 1️⃣ PRIORITIZE JESUS This is #1 because everything else flows from here. You can’t love your wife like Jesus if you aren’t walking with Jesus. The closer you get to Him, the better equipped you become to lead with humility, forgive quickly, serve sacrificially, and love when it costs you something. “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.” — Ephesians 5:25 NKJV Your marriage doesn’t need a perfect husband. It needs a husband who is continually becoming more like Jesus. Jesus first. Your wife second. Take care of the man she’s married to. Husbands—which one of these three do you need to work on most right now?