I can tell who needs identity work. Not by what you say you want but by where you stop in THIS community.
Inside this lab, the first steps are simple, but they’re not easy.
Step 1 is claiming your identity out loud. Not in your head. Not privately. Out loud. On a post. Step 2 is facing the identity split. Seeing how many days, sometimes years you’ve been saying “this is who I am” or want to be while choosing something else every single day.
Step 3 is action. An Action that puts a dent in the identity you claimed on day 1.
As a metaphysical psychologist & Identity Strategist, here’s what I’ve noticed:
When someone takes the 1st class but doesn’t claim their identity…or claims it but doesn’t complete the nervous system math…or completes both but doesn't take action…that alone tells me which identity is currently in control.
The old identity can feel when change is about to happen.And when it does, it creates reasons not to continue. It avoids confronting the possibility of a new reality.
That’s why so many people will sign up for something whether it be $7 or $7,000 —start it, and quietly disappear. Not because the material wasn’t good. But because the identity they’ve been living from doesn’t want to lose control. You are underestimating how strong it is and how well it knows you.
I mean no offense when I say this, but If your nervous system can’t handle the application of the first three steps in this lab, then nothing outside of this space will “fix” that.
Use this space as your training ground.The place where you can see your pattern before you spend more money, join another program,or tell yourself the story that you just need something different.
Dr. Kimesha
Identity Strategist