Let me introduce myself... π
Hey, I'm Maria. And before you start Module 1, I want you to know a little bit about me β and why I created The FOR You Framework. Here's my story: I'm the surviving twin. When my mom was pregnant, doctors told her the pregnancy was lost. But somehow, I survived. Less than a 1% chance at life. I beat those odds before I even took my first breath. At 2 months old, I survived chickenpox β which should have killed me. At 16, I survived sexual assault that led to cervical cancer by the time I was 18, then again at 19 and twice at 32. At 28, as a newly single mom of three, I had emergency surgery that nearly killed me. I woke up in a hospital bed not knowing if I'd ever see my kids again. And for years, I asked the same question over and over: "Why is this happening TO me?" Why me? What did I do to deserve this? Why can't life just be easy for once? That question kept me stuck. Angry. Powerless. Playing the victim. Until one day, after lots of working on myself, I asked a different question: "What if this is happening FOR me?" Not because I deserved it. Not because "everything happens for a reason." But because I could CHOOSE what to do with it. I couldn't control the cancer. I couldn't control the near-death experience. I couldn't control being the twin who lived. But I could control my response. That shift β from TO to FOR β saved my life. It's the reason I'm here today. It's the reason I started my podcast. It's the reason I wrote my book "Against All Odds: The Less Than 1% Chance." And it's the reason I created this course. Because if I can rebuild from impossible odds β multiple times β so can you. So who am I? I'm a mom of three incredible kids. Bonus mom to 3 more incredible kids and a dog mom to 3 pretty amazing dogs. I'm proudly Boricua π΅π· (Puerto Rican pride, always). I work a full-time day job in the healthcare industry (yes, you can rebuild AND have a career). I'm an author, podcast host, and resilience coach. But mostly? I'm just someone who refuses to let hard things win.