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We talk a lot (the royal We) about self questioning, but what does that actually mean? Let me share a story from recently: I have a problem with my husband drinking. He doesn't become mean, or rude. He is not abusive. He doesn't yell. We don't fight. What did was disappear.... he withdrew into himself. Years ago, I told him he needed to stop drinking. And he did. He chose me and our life over alcohol. Recently, he's been going to a friend's house and having a single White Claw. It's social for him, and one of the only ways he can relax in order to socialize. Last night, I felt upset about it. But what happened was that I allowed my frustration to show me what is mine, and where I was projecting on to him. He has been following the rules I set forth (no drinking at the house, no coming home drunk, no withdrawing, etc). So I ended up asking myself: Why am I upset? What is my reasoning? Am I upset with him, or am I projecting responsibility for my triggers on to him? Turns out, when I had an honest conversation with myself, i was projecting on to him. He is not responsible for my triggers. He is not doing anything "wrong." It was sobering for me. That is self questioning.

This is not a discussion to solve or debate. It is a practice of naming what is true and letting it be witnessed. This is a practice of "sitting with it." How this works: Read the Call slowly. Respond from the body, not the polished mind. When replying to others, offer reflection, not advice. Begin with: “I hear…”, “I witness…”, or “What this stirs in me…” CALL: Where in your life are you standing at a threshold, even if you haven’t chosen to name it yet? What is loosening, unraveling, or asking to be released? RESPONSE (your share): One sentence is enough. Fragments are welcome. Silence is also a response (return when ready) WITNESSING OTHERS: Do not fix. Do not interpret. Do not redirect.