A sign you are heading in the right direction, is when people start to dislike you!
This is typically a sign that you are either:
- Beginning to outpace them
- Beginning to voice your opinion more
- Beginning to let it be known that you stand for something
- Beginning to set and hold boundaries
- Beginning to let people know when you disagree or disapprove...
The shift within YOU may be so subtle that YOU yourself don't even notice it - but others WILL! They will probably notice it first, and the first thing YOU notice, will be that certain people are suddenly treating you differently, distancing themselves or speaking negatively about you.
This can be confusing and even hurtful when you don't understand why .. but it's often because they recognize something in you that you haven't recognized in yourself. They recognize that you are leveling UP, and that they can no longer compete or compare.
Let them cast their metaphorical "daggers". Let them cast "stones". There is a compliment hidden in there. Despite the words that come out of their mouths, what they are really saying is:
" I can't compete with you anymore!"
We will talk another day, about the cost of personal evolution; but for today... I just want to let you know - that if you notice you have started to make enemies, where you use to find only "friends"... It's because you're doing something RIGHT! Keep going! 💚💯