What areas could you grow in spiritually? Where could you lean into God more? Is there an area of life that is stronger than another? Can you see how much you have grown since you've started prioritizing God in all areas of your life?

This assessment will help you understand God's purpose for your life. He has created you in a way that allows you to love & serve others in a special way. If you are wanting purpose and fulfillment in your life, this is the place to start.

Does your life feel off balance? Work, go home, eat, sleep, repeat? Complete this assessment to assess the different areas of your life and create goals to improve the areas that have been put on the back burner.

How well are you communicating? I mean, you may be talking but did you know there are over 20 different basic communication skills!?!? That doesn't even include dating and intimacy skills. This checklist will allow you to be intentional with developing your social-effectiveness, not just in relationships, but in everyday interactions.

Use this assessment to guide you in the areas that you want to grow in. Be honest and truthful, only you will see this. Leave pride, shame and judgement of self behind. This assessment is for self-reflection. Thoughts like "I don't want to be in a relationship" or "I'm fine being single" will keep you from working on the relationship you have with yourself. You can also use this assessment to determine what courses will be most beneficial for you to take.

Dating as a single parent is not always the easiest. You have desires and dreams but also want to do what is best for your child(ren). This will help you with clarity on how to balance the two.

You want to bring your best, healed and whole self to a relationship. Be honest with yourself and create goals of what you want to accomplish using the Goals for Living My Vision worksheet.

How are the limiting beliefs you have about yourself and your life effecting life around you?

What hidden beliefs do you have about money, relationships, etc. How do they align with what God says?

What limiting beliefs to you have of yourself, dating and relationships? Are you focusing on God's faithfulness or the defeats of dating and failed relationships?

Now that you've uncovered your beliefs, let's take the first step in turning them around to serve you instead of working against you.

This is the starting point. Knowing what you value most and how they show up in your life will make it less likely that you "lose yourself" in another relationship. Have you ever thought about what your life purpose is? How is God wanting you to live your life in the service of others? A life that brings glory and honor to Him.

Create a list of 100 items... give or take 30 for each column. Challenge yourself. This most likely won't be an exercise that you can sit down and finish in 30 minutes. You'll get stuck.. that's okay. Put it down and come back to it. Multiple times if needed. Use the Goals for Living My Vision to help you achieve some of the things on your list.

Needs are natural, valid and human. This exercise will help you to better articulate and take ownership of getting your needs met.

Are you surrounding yourself with the right people who align with your values, interests and goals? Are they people that you have a level of trust with that matches the level of friendship you have with them?

You want to work toward a similar goal with your partner. Ideas aren't created overnight. We all have a certain way we want to live, visions of what family looks like and different capacities. Someone who wants to live on land with chickens, horses and a garden, won't be very compatible with someone who wants to live in the city within walking distance to a coffee shop. Someone who values family get togethers for game night, wouldn't be most compatible with someone who values traveling.

Take the information from your Be, Do & Have list and Life Satisfaction Assessment and create SMART goals for yourself. Take this season of preparation and waiting to achieve goals and live a life that is full and abundant. Step out of your comfort zone, try new things. God is with you and He is waiting for you to meet the person He has created in you!

What mindsets or behaviors are sabotaging you and the way you choose relationships?

What is Law of Attraction? Like attracts Like is such a broad and general definition. The Law of Attraction is the belief that what you consistently focus on mentally and emotionally influences what you experience in life. If you want to get out and meet new people but you don't want to get hurt the Law of Attraction will keep you safe by protecting you from connecting with potential partners. Fear of rejection? Law of attraction will result in fewer meaningful conversations.

Have you found yourself settling from the very beginning? Like where did your minimum standards go when all of the emotions, butterflies and dreaming of the future came flooding in??? This exercise will guide you do creating the baseline for what you want a partner to bring the table. This will help you stay grounded in your standards and keep you from settling for less from the start.

Take time to focus on what you require for a relationship to work. This won't include characteristics or traits of a person. Try to use language that starts with "We prioritize", "We value", etc.