What it means: Taking turns is the ability to wait patiently and alternate with others during conversations, games, or activities. It shows respect, fairness, and courtesy β all essential for building friendships and positive interactions.
Why itβs important:
- Helps kids learn patience and self-control.
- Teaches fairness and respect for others.
- Builds stronger communication and teamwork skills.
- Prepares kids for real-life situations like waiting in lines, sharing resources at school, or even collaborating in future jobs.
Real-life examples for kids:
- Waiting for a turn on the playground swing.
- Sharing classroom supplies like scissors or markers.
- Taking turns to talk during βshow and tell.β
- Waiting for a sibling to finish using the TV or computer.
Strategies to teach taking turns:
- Play Games π² β Use board games, card games, or playground games that naturally involve turn-taking.
- Role-Play Conversations π¬ β Practice passing a ball or toy back and forth, with each person speaking only when they have the object.
- Model Turn-Taking π©βπ« β Show kids what it looks like by modeling patience and fairness yourself.
- Use Visual Cues π β A timer, talking stick, or even a simple gesture can help kids understand when itβs their turn.
- Praise and Reinforce π β Acknowledge and celebrate when kids wait their turn: βGreat job waiting for your turn on the slide!β
Books that help teach this skill:
- Itβs My Turn! by David Bedford
- Wait Your Turn, Word Bird! by Jane Belk Moncure