Skill focus: turn-taking, active listening, respectful communication
Time: 5–7 minutes
Materials: 1 soft ball or small stuffed toy
Setup:
Have students sit in a circle.
Explain the rule: Only the person holding the ball may speak. Everyone else listens until it’s their turn.
How to Play:
Start with a fun prompt (e.g., “Share your favorite snack,” or “Tell us something you like to do outside”).
The first speaker shares, then passes the ball to the next person.
Before speaking, the new speaker must reflect one thing they heard from the previous person (e.g., “I heard that you like apples…”) before adding their own response.
Continue passing the ball until everyone has had a turn.
Encourage patience and listening bodies (eyes on speaker, quiet mouths, still hands).
Discussion / Reflection:
How did it feel to know everyone was really listening to you?
Was it hard to remember something the last person said?
Why is reflecting what we hear important in conversations?
How can we use this strategy with friends or family?