· Skill focus: giving positive feedback, kindness, communication
· Time: 10 minutes
· Materials: paper cutouts of “sandwich parts” (bread slices, fillings like lettuce, cheese, tomato, etc.), markers or crayons
Setup:
1. Explain that sometimes when we give suggestions, it’s best to “sandwich” them with kindness: start with a compliment, add the suggestion, and finish with another kind word.
2. Show a sample “sandwich”:
o Bread (top): Compliment → “You drew really creative pictures.”
o Filling: Suggestion → “Maybe add more color to the background.”
o Bread (bottom): Compliment → “I love how much effort you put in.”
How to Play:
- Give each student paper “bread” and “filling” pieces.
- On the top bread, they write a compliment.
- On the filling, they write a kind suggestion for improvement.
- On the bottom bread, they write another compliment or encouragement.
- Stack the pieces together to create a “Compliment Sandwich.”
- Pair up with a partner and share their sandwiches aloud.
Discussion / Reflection:
- How does it feel to give and receive a “compliment sandwich”?
- Why do you think it’s easier to hear suggestions when they’re wrapped in kindness?
How can this strategy help in school, at home, or with friends?