The shrinker , I’m just socially inept in social situations , if I say something wrong I will look stupid and it’s better to be quiet
Appeaser , I’m just a people pleaser if I say what I actually think people will dislike me and that feeling is uncomfortable
Performer , I’m just a comedian , I’ve convinced myself i am funny guy to numb the pain but now I have to keep playing catch up with that to the pint where I have to humiliate myself
Deflector , I’m just emotionally avoidant, if I show emotion first I’m weak