Feedback loop #1 shrinker turned perfomer

I forgot to mention in the video: this has cost me, as Dino mentioned in the 4 patterns video, authentic relationships with NEW people because they can sense the performative behaviour.

I have no problem being myself with familiar faces and feel very comfortable but when it comes to meeting new people, I feel I hide away my personality in hopes of looking mature and well put-together.

The funny thing is, it varies widely for me. Sometimes I feel very confident and make an amazing first impression, other times I feel I am acting weird and not being my true self.

Let me know your thoughts and any constructive feedback you have for me.

That is my pattern ✅

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