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New members feel free.
I designed this community with intention to slowly increase the members over time. I also plan to keep a more hands-off oversight. Therefore, feel free to engage, or invite others for discussion. I also have a Substack and YouTube channel you are free to engage with/learn from
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My substack account
For those that are unaware, Substack is a free to use platform/app used for writers an authors. Here you can have access to my weekly writings as well as have a more crystalized insight into what I think about. I plan to write at least weekly if interested. Here's the link: https://open.substack.com/pub/theophiluswiley19?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=c2jhg
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Introduction
Hey everyone. Welcome to my free online community. I made this place for people to talk about the different problems, obstacles, and pitfalls you've had to overcome when making progress on self development. In this space I plan to allow free speech, as well as freedom of opinion. I only ask that we stay close to the important things, and to not make things too political, religious, or disrespectful towards other people. I will be checking in daily to see how the group is doing, help when needed, and give out updates. Stay tuned, and till then, enjoy!
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True vs Performative Masculinity.
🔹 True Masculinity vs Performative Masculinity Masculinity is not the absence of emotion. It is the mastery of emotion. Performative masculinity projects strength without internal control.True masculinity builds structure underneath emotion. Emotions are like a raging river. You can: - Pretend it isn’t there - Let it flood your decisions - Or build a dam and turn it into power Fear → preparationAnger → fuelDesire → growth Even Muhammad Ali’s charisma was built on discipline.Rome’s spectacle lasted because structure supported it.When structure faded, collapse followed. This community is about structure. Reflection: 1. What emotion is strongest in you right now? 2. Are you reacting to it — or directing it? 3. Where in your life are you performing instead of building? Let’s keep this constructive and solution-oriented.
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Dating: Primary or Secondary?
I’ve been thinking about something: Dating shouldn’t be avoided. But it probably shouldn’t be a primary focus early on either. When direction isn’t solid, dating can become a distraction instead of a complement. Honest question: At your current stage, is dating supporting your direction — or replacing it?
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This is my free skool group. Here I would simply like to open up conversation about how to navigate Self improvement and focus on what's important.
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