Scripture clearly teaches that sexual pleasure is to only be derived in the context of two people of the opposite sex within a lifelong covenant (aka marriage). There are three parts involved for sex to be lawful/natural: the number of individuals (two), the sex of the individuals (opposite), and the commitment of the individuals (marriage covenant). Masturbation fails in all three parts. Yes, God designed sex to be pleasurable as it is supposed to deepen intimacy between husband and wife. But, when you condition yourself with years of self pleasure you begin to view sex, marriage and women as something to extract from, to use for your own sexual desires. This is why masturbation is immoral. It can turn you into a selfish man. When sex is supposed to be a selfless, mutual, loving act. Masurbation as a single man is also immoral since you are satisfying yourself to a sexual fantasy that is either imaginary or visual which conditions you to fetishize and idealize women in an unnatural way that can create shame, fear and uncertainty in your ability to lead, court and treat your future wife with love. There are three reasons why masturbation is immoral: #1 - MASTURBATION INVOLVES A SINGLE INDIVIDUAL First, masturbation is sinful because it involves a single individual. In this sense, it is an extremely narcissistic act that violates 1 Corinthians 7:3-4. Here we are that a woman has sexual authority over her husband's body and vice versa. This is an invariable condition of marriage, that the husband surrenders the power of his own body, and gives it up to his wife. How could he afterwards disconnect himself from his wife, as if he were free? Same goes for the wife. Sex must not involve more than two people but neither may it involve less than two people. #2 - MASTURBATION INVOLVES A SINGLE SEX Second, masturbation is sinful because it involves a single sex. The principle of a male receiving sexual pleasure from a male (or female from a female) being sinful is clearly laid out in Scripture. Similar to the first reason and how it involves a single individual; when a man decides to “self pleasure” he is receiving pleasure from his own body, which again violates 1 Corinthians 7:3-5

I was speaking to an entrepreneur last week and I asked him why he couldn't scale his coaching business Leads? Sales calls? Content? nope Because he had a crippling porn addiction so thought fuck it, lets re open this group Btw i no longer sell nofap coaching, i am in the business of helping self improvement creators launch their own coaching businesses - if you're interested in that check out my free group here btw What posts do you want to see?

If you are still struggling with porn, I please advise you to never use the r/nofap subreddit. While it looks wholesome from the outside, it's really a scheme to keep desperate men coming back for useless advice that they think will eventually work, despite it not making an ounce of a difference for years of their life. I made a post in there where I gave advice that was very unconventional, but which worked very effectively for not just myself but many others, and it got taken down before it could get any decent traction. These subreddits don't want to help you, they only want more members to boost their ego and keep you trapped. I know that I probably didn't need to make this post, but just in case any of you boys still go on there, please stay away. Stay safe boys

Hello! Welcome to the Retain4Gain Skool. The goal of this skool is to help Men quit porn and masturbation addiction by mastering their sexual energy so they can go on to create meaningful relationships, reach financial freedom and lead meaningful lives filled with purpose and success Millions of men try to quit porn each year but only a handful ever succeed which means millions of men are left in the dark living unproductive lives, fail to attract their dream girl, ruin their relationships with family + friends and even financial difficulty due to wasting money or not working on their business/job enough This is because of the misinformation provided in the "nofap" community on places such as youtube and reddit This is where Retain4Gain has entered to change things We are a community of men who unlike others don't sit around crying about our streak The streak isn't the end for us - we quit porn and redirect our sexual energy into creating 6-8 figure businesses or getting promoted in our jobs, we aspire to improve our relationships with women and family but more importantly go to sleep every single night knowing we are doing the best we can in our lives We retain for gain - not meaningless streaks or validation I will be adding some courses + resources to help everyone soon in the classroom section so be sure to keep your eyes out for that - I am extremely excited to share the R.E.T.A.I.N framework with you soon that has helped some people quit a 5 year addiction in as little as 1 week To kick things off, please comment below introducing yourself. Let us know: 1. Your name 2. Where you are from 3. Your goals - doesn't have to be related to quitting porn! See you in the comments!