Men, you don’t need to go overboard on a first date.
You want to show her who you are and actually see if she’s compatible with you.
You’ve probably seen the reels where women get offended because a guy took them for a picnic, a coffee, or something simple.
And here’s the truth.
If you want a woman who values you and not what you spend, taking her somewhere you enjoy, something meaningful, easy, and fun
is one of the best ways to see if she aligns with your world.
The first date isn’t about impressing her with money or performance.
It’s about creating connection.
It’s about seeing if you enjoy each other enough to want a second date.
Yes, be thoughtful.
Yes, make space for her to feel comfortable.
And do it in a way that is real and authentic to who you are.
If she vibes with the real you, that’s the woman you want. The rest isn't worth your time.
In the classroom there's a class called Looking For Love. Check it out and it will help you identify other ways to make sure you are attracting the right match for YOU!