Do Not Text Like This (When You Are Trying to Date
If your texting feels needy, rushed, or desperate, the other person feels it long before you notice it. And they pull back. Needy does not mean you are a bad person. It usually means you are texting too fast, sending multiple messages before they reply, dropping heavy emotional truths too early, sending photos they did not ask for, or trying to force connection before it exists. Most people do this because they are excited or nervous, not because they are manipulative. But the impact is the same. It creates pressure instead of safety. People respond to presence. Space. Steady confidence.If you want a real connection, step back and let the conversation breathe. Ask thoughtful questions. Match their pace. Let things unfold naturally. You already know how it feels when someone comes at you with too much, too fast. It is overwhelming. Do not bring that energy to someone you are just getting to know. If you want help shifting how you come across so your conversations feel safe, engaging, and magnetic, DM me. I can help you change this in a grounded and powerful way. 💛