What I Learned From Watching Men Be Men
I did not learn strength from a book.
I learned it from my father. From the men who came before him.
From the ones who got up before the sun every single day
and never once complained about what the day demanded of them.
There is something about watching a man work with his hands,
carry his family on his back,
and still find the strength to do it again tomorrow.
I noticed that as a little girl, even when I did not have the words for it yet.
I was just watching. Learning.
Letting it shape me without even realizing it was happening.
I admire men. I really do.
The discipline it takes to provide,
the quiet way they protect without asking for thanks,
the way they keep showing up when no one is clapping for them.
Those are real virtues, and I think we forget to say that out loud sometimes.
I never wanted to be a man.
I just wanted what they had. That fire. That steadiness.
So I took it, the courage, the resilience,
the willingness to keep going, and I built it into who I am as a woman.
It all started with my father.
And his father before him.
And every man who stepped into that role for me along the way,
teaching me what responsibility looks like just by living it, not by saying it.
To the men who carry their families
and their work and their character without making a show of it, I see you.
I have always seen you. And I am thankful for what you gave me,
just by being who you are.
Happy Father’s Day!
❤️Create. Design. Build with intention. Live with purpose.
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