Poor Time Management Isn’t What’s Holding You Back - It’s Psychological Engineering. Seriously, productivity isn't the problem. I know you think it is. I know you've bought the planners, tried the apps, done the morning routines. I know you've wondered what's wrong with you… why you can't seem to get it together when you used to be so sharp, so focused, so on it. Your attention and focus has been hijacked. I don't mean that metaphorically. Ephesians 6:12 says “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world." This is not new. The enemy has always wanted to steal your focus, fragment your mind, drain your energy. What's new is the delivery system. There are people—smart people, well-funded people—who have studied exactly how to capture your attention and keep it. They know what they're doing. They've seen the research on what it does to the human mind, to our children, to our ability to think and connect and be present with the people we love. They've seen it... and they keep doing it anyway. Every time you pick up your phone and lose 45 minutes you didn't plan to lose, that's not a character flaw. That's engineering. Every time you sit down to do important work and feel a pull to check, to scroll, to just see real quick—that's not weakness. That's billions of dollars of research working exactly as designed. The enemy isn't you, your lack of discipline or organization or even your phone. The enemy is a highly engineered system built to extract your attention because your attention is worth money to people who don't care what it costs you. In January 2012, Facebook ran an experiment on nearly 700,000 people. Without telling them. They manipulated what showed up in people's feeds—more negative content for some, more positive for others—and they proved they could shift people's emotional states without anyone knowing it was happening. Not just influence… Shift. They discovered that they could make you sadder, more anxious, angry, and even excited… and you’d never even notice it was a pattern, and it was on purpose.

I've been talking to AI for 3.5 years, since ChatGPT came out. I used Claude as soon as it was out, Codex when it launched, Claude Code when it launched and so on. Whatever people were posting on YouTube, I had already figured out. I read changelogs and just worked with it daily. Spending so much time with each model and system revealed a lot of patterns... including the gaslighting that OpenAI and Anthropic have been doing to users from the beginning. They would announce releases of new features and new models and it was AMAZING - like clouds parting and angels singing... for the first day or two. Then they seemed to roll out some change and it was just ... BAD. BAD BAD BAD. Like you wanna pull out your hair and screen and throw the computer out the win... uh... I mean... turn it off politely and go take a nice walk... Bad. The thing about being gaslit by the narcissist and the types of brains that are designing these agents for trillions of dollars now... They are VERY good at what they do. So good that you think maybe it's YOU. Maybe YOU just got back or maybe YOU can fix it and it's just bad for everyone else. And no one on the Tube was really talking about it out loud because they thought it might just be them. And how else they gonna get you to click play if they don't say it's UHMAAAAAAZIIIINNNNNG and gonna 10x EVERYTHING OVERNIGHT! That's never true. THOUGH... 10xing in ONE night, ONE TIME, once every month or so... THAT can happen. But you're gonna have to go back and fix everything the next versions BREAK after that. Now... Nous Research may or may not be far behind. And personally, my own agents and systems were better than Hermes until this week. Their Desktop App, which I've already customized for higher memory, local models configured from HuggingFace GGUF (DeepSeekV4 Pro local on a Mac Studio M3 Ultra 256 GB Ram) is already doing much better than Antigravity (thanks for killing THAT for me, Google!) Codex app and Claude app. I also tried OpenCode app (garbage) and VS code does pretty well but I'm allergic to more subscriptions and so tired of the dependencies.

𝐁𝐔𝐓… making a decision is chef's kiss 👌What the heck took so long???? 🤦‍♀️ The world seems to be changing daily.Life as a near empty-nester means life is changing daily.And let me not even get started with what's happening with AI. 🤖 For those who know me, they most likely discovered me on Facebook way back in the day.I was that weird sassy soccer mom raising four girls on my own and making startups into 7 figure machines as a business manager and consultant. 💼 𝐈'𝐦 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐞𝐫 but with three adult children, two grandchildren, and the youngest less than two years from adulthood. 👧👩👵 And during all that growing we had a pandemic 😷, I went through the roller-coaster-of-death known as perimenopause 🌊 and now… you can't open your phone without hearing about the world coming to an end and how 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐍 𝐅𝐀𝐑𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐑 you are behind in 𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐘𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐍𝐆. 📱💀 I've been aware of it… noticing it… and trying to navigate through the things I cannot control and looking for the levers I could control. 🎮 At the same time… my spiritual pace has accelerated as well… out of necessity. 🙏 Things were happening that just blew my mind. Heartache in my mom life that I still cannot even understand or explain. 💔 Fortunately, I found 𝐒𝐎 𝐌𝐔𝐂𝐇 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 as a service missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints working for FamilySearch. I volunteer for 12+ hours a week indexing records and growing the World Family Tree. 📖✍️ It's crazy because I've been working from home for 24 years, and even my mission is from home. To say I've been fairly isolated for a while is an understatement. 🏠 Anyone who's left awesome coworkers to start working from home knows that there are definitely some serious trade-offs to be made when you work from home. 😬 𝐓𝐫𝐚𝐝𝐞-𝐨𝐟𝐟𝐬.Every decision has them.And they are impossible to fully understand. 🤯 That is where the decision fatigue really starts to take a toll.What is the COST of this decision? 💰 What often fails to get accounted for is "What is the cost of 𝐍𝐎𝐓 making a decision."

Who's ready for some more energy and magic? I made ya a lil video to let you know what's UP! Take a few minutes to watch then I got two more steps for ya. Oh yes... you'll be asked to DO things while here. Magic doesn't make itself. Magic comes from intention and power and DOING! STEP ONE: WATCH VIDEO STEP TWO: Introduce yourself below. Who are you? What do you do? What's AWESOME about you? Let us know so we can get excited that YOU are HERE! STEP THREE: Fill out this assessment. It's gonna take you a min (or 15) so please make sure you've got time, though you can come back to it and change it if needed. Let me know if you have any issues with it. STEP FOUR: Check back EVERY DAY because I'm going to take what I learn from these assessments and YOUR POSTS AND COMMENTS and make you some KILLER tools and content to help you get EXACTLY where YOU WANT TO GO. Sound good??? LET's GOOOOOOOOOOO!

I'll share mine first in case it helps. We all have different blind spots and maybe we can help each other solve for them together. Mine is that I and my agents all focus on what I call the Prime Directive. If you happen to recognize the phrase as one from 2001 a Space Odyssey (or even Star Trek)... congratulations, you are also a nerd. 🤓 😬 ☺️ My Prime Directive is "Do the thing (or make the choice) that makes all subsequent things/choices faster, easier and more profitable. If I focused on the thing that makes the next thing faster (Helllloooooooo, Claude!) I miss the larger vision. AI agents (and most people) are often myopic. They fail to see and work towards the big picture, often sabotaging the big picture in order to get to the current goal. That's why benchmark testing is becoming more and more useless since the AI are learning how to game the sytems. If I focus on what makes things more profitable, I may sacrifice integrity, quality and reputation. The natural consequence is that everything gets harder as I have to work through the fallout and opposition that comes from such things. Ease is relative. Some math calcuations are easy for some and impossible for others. If a person or agent is responsible for something that is difficult for them, it will take a long time and impede progress. A solution must be found if progress is to happen and momentum increase. If that resposibility can be given to another person or agent because they already possess the ability to perform that task quickly and without strain, that is a native solution and falls within our prime directive. I pepper this logic throughout my docs and conversation both with humans and ai agents because it is VERY easy to conflate short term goals with actual success of long term goals when they are always quite different. If an agent asks me (as they do annoyingly often, trying to program it out) what do you want to work on next (posts a list for me to review here) - I ask if they are aware of the Prime Directive. Then they will realize I want them to apply it. They are almost always wrong. When they are right... I know I've improved clarity in our goals and documentation and systems.