Yesterday, we spotted the chaos.
Today, we soften its edges.
Overwhelm isn’t always about how much we carry — sometimes it’s how we see it.
Our brains love to exaggerate everything into emergencies.
But the Operator Mom sees through the noise.
She asks:
> “What here is truly heavy — and what just feels that way because I’ve been carrying it wrong?”
🎯 Today’s Task:
Pick one story, belief, or expectation that makes your load heavier.
Then reframe it with truth, not guilt.
Examples:
“I have to do everything myself.” → “I can lead and delegate.”
“Dinner has to be homemade.” → “Dinner has to get us fed.”
“I’m behind.” → “I’m learning to pace my priorities.”
💬 In the comments:
Share your reframe — your “old story” and your “new operating policy.”
Bonus: Notice how your energy shifts when the words shift. That’s the real muscle we’re building here.