Sorry I had to move the call tonight, but I wanted to leave you with something, so here is an insight from today:
I’m a big board game person.
When I play, I’m not just taking turns. I’m looking for the optimal strategy — the moves that get me the most points and actually win.
And I’ve been thinking…
A lot of high-achieving students don’t approach life this way.
Tasks come in:
- From professors
- From family
- From friends
- From opportunities
- From our own ideas
And we just accept them.
“I need to do this.”
“I should do this.”
No filter. 🚫
That’s where overwhelm starts.
Because now you have a whole bunch of stuff…and no one is managing it.
But YOU are the manager.
When you intentionally decide what you do or do not take on, you regain control.
You move from: “I have to do all of this.”
To: “I’m choosing this over another thing because it moves me closer to my goals.” 🎯
That’s strategy.
You don’t have to accept every task as mandatory. You don’t have to give 100% effort to everything. You don't have to be powerless in your own schedule.
Find the moves that actually move you forward.
Play strategically.
That’s how you get back in the driver’s seat.
👉 What’s one “task” on your plate right now that you accepted automatically — without deciding if it actually moves you toward your goals? Do you want to keep it?