Over the past few weeks I've built a really intentional system for how I plan and prioritize my days. Less stress. Less panic. More control. Then my husband got the flu. Suddenly I was handling school pickups, rearranging my schedule, covering everything at home. And without realizing it, I was constantly doing things and sacrificed my systems. I started filling my time with work to catch up. The normal recovery time got deprioritized. I didn’t go to sleep at the time I wanted to. The plan flew out the window. Until I caught myself and named what was actually happening: This is a choice I'm making. Not a circumstance. A choice. And I could make a different one. I had a student go through something similar. He got sick before midterms, studied less than he normally would, and braced for the worst. He did great. And it forced him to ask a question most high-achievers never let themselves ask: Do I actually need to do all of this — at this level of intensity — to get results I'm proud of? For a lot of us, the schedule we're running isn't built around what's necessary. It's built around what feels safe. More hours, more effort, more control over the outcome. And the first things to go are always the same — sleep, exercise, and actual recovery breaks because they don’t feel as important when you’re working towards the deadlines. It feels productive in the moment. But when this happens, you’re not operating strategically. You’re operating exhausted. And an exhausted brain retains less, thinks slower, and makes everything harder than it needs to be — even for high achievers who are capable of much more when they’re actually thinking clearly. Sometimes the most strategic thing you can do is protect your recovery — not sacrifice it. 👉 What's the first thing you cut when you feel behind — and is that actually helping you catch up?

Welcome to the community @Brianna Hardy @Vanessa Bateup! We are super excited that you all are here and look forward to connecting with you. Feel free to introduce yourself in this thread or in the comments below!

I've been a little quiet -- but it's because I'm thinking hard about this community! You may notice things look a little different around here -- new name, new look, and a shift in how we're communicating what this space is about. After some reflection, I wanted the name to actually reflect what we're building here — a community for high-achieving STEM undergrads who aren't just working hard, but learning to work strategically. "Strategic Scholars" captures that better. It's about being intentional — with your time, your opportunities, and how you position yourself. We're getting clearer on our positioning and how we talk about what we do here, so expect some experimentation over the next little while. ❤️

Sorry I had to move the call tonight, but I wanted to leave you with something, so here is an insight from today: I’m a big board game person. When I play, I’m not just taking turns. I’m looking for the optimal strategy — the moves that get me the most points and actually win. And I’ve been thinking… A lot of high-achieving students don’t approach life this way. Tasks come in: - From professors - From family - From friends - From opportunities - From our own ideas And we just accept them. “I need to do this.” “I should do this.” No filter. 🚫 That’s where overwhelm starts. Because now you have a whole bunch of stuff…and no one is managing it. But YOU are the manager. When you intentionally decide what you do or do not take on, you regain control. You move from: “I have to do all of this.” To: “I’m choosing this over another thing because it moves me closer to my goals.” 🎯 That’s strategy. You don’t have to accept every task as mandatory. You don’t have to give 100% effort to everything. You don't have to be powerless in your own schedule. Find the moves that actually move you forward. Play strategically. That’s how you get back in the driver’s seat. 👉 What’s one “task” on your plate right now that you accepted automatically — without deciding if it actually moves you toward your goals? Do you want to keep it?

So let’s start by getting to know each other! How to get started: 1. Introduce yourself in the comments (you’ll see quite a few of us have already done the same 🙂). 2. Share something about who you are — where you’re from, what you’re studying, and what you’re working toward this year. Anything you’d like the community to know! 3. Read some of the other introductions and reply to those you resonate with. Start a conversation. Be curious! We encourage all members to ask questions and get to know each other! If there’s something you’re working toward, thinking through, or trying to improve — free free to post it in the Community Tab. We’re here to think and move forward together. (To be notified of new introductions, click the 🔔in the top right of the post!)