Why pickup artists get laid (it’s not what you think)

A talented “pickup artist” thinks he is “gaming” women.

That is, taking a woman who was not interested in sleeping with him, and doing some sort of Jedi mind trick to get her to WANT to sleep with him that night.

Argue all you want – I’ve seen HUNDREDS of PUAs operate on my HUNDREDS of female friends, and I firmly believe that this is NOT THE CASE.

Pickup works because it gets you talking to more women. Period.

Lots of PUAs go down that road because they never developed their social skills (for whatever reason). Many of them STILL haven’t.

The routines are designed to create a short-term positive reaction, which is good for morale. It gives them momentum for the next approach, and the next.

They may get laid a lot … but it’s not because they have cracked the code to some “magic routine.”

Whenever a PUA comes up to one of my amazing female friends to try to spit some “game,” 100% of the time she comes running to me saying “OMG Michael, you won’t believe what this CREEPY GUY just said …”

So WHY do PUAs pull lays?

Because they talk to SO MANY WOMEN over the course of a night that eventually they’re in the “right place, right time.”

They meet the ONE girl who is DTF and takes an immediate liking to him … or it’s the end of the night, she’s craving dick, and he’s the best, most convenient, or least-threatening option.

What do we learn from this?

YOUR WEIRD PUA MOVES AREN’T WHAT GETS YOU LAID.

That girl was ALREADY going to fuck you, WHETEVER you said.

No hate. More power to you.

But what your creepy PUA moves DID do was turn off a dozen OTHER women you approached.

Women who may not have fucked you that night … but who might have become your FRIEND.

A friend who could have introduced you to her high-status male friends.

Or gotten you into VIP.

Or introduced you to her single girlfriends.

Congrats, PUA Master. You got laid. But at what cost?

Comment below if you have a story like this.

10 comments