· Make approaches about liberating yourself and expressing your desire not just getting the girl, make your focus spreading good energy around.
· Anyone that is interesting or attractive approach them with open curiosity free from outcome or expectation to practice the habit of free style interacting with people.
· Have a priority higher than the girl like building your power and becoming your ideal expressed self. Or to be a master of your destiny and you just so happened to talk to this girl in the process.
· Compliment girls and walk off to practice being free from expectations.
· Turn transactions into interactions. Look for opportunities to make something from nothing even if it’s a smile and a few words.
· Hang in there for a few more seconds and ask them to give something back. Get her to invest like "tell me something interesting" "I want to hear about you".
· Challenge yourself to show your raw masculine intent but make sure you are calibrated to do this, say "Excuse me…Your fucking sexy, who are you?" or something equivalent - Charge the words with intent and power and flirt like a beast.
· Practice interviewing girls for the position of lover. Start with one question and let it evolve into something deeper. Listen and respond.
· Be looking for women of common interests and approach them when you can.
· Set an intention to find girls of common interest that are on the same wavelength then go looking for them in a non-attached way. Be ready for them to show up.
· Liberate yourself and say what is on your mind. Sharing yourself and your ideas is a good start to a deeper connection. Start to explore new topics, add in risky and fun topics also.
· Showing your vulnerability and transparency is true confidence. When you present yourself to a woman in your raw form she has no choice but to accept or reject you. This may seem harsh at first but its actually really cool because it means you can always have a try and see if she is interested. At worst you showed some of your humanity and shared something with someone. Its good for your momentum every time you do this no mater the outcome.
· Take your power back from micro avoidance strategies. Notice how you do things that prevent you from doing what you want and do the opposite. If you hesitate, go for it. If you talk to much to get to the point of closing bring it into the conversation earlier. If you talk yourself out of it, stop yourself and reframe your thoughts.
· Complement them for something unique.
· Everyday practice stopping a woman you like and compliment her in a unique way and see if you can get her to invest a bit. What's your name? what are you up to? Anyway, I just wanted to say that you are lovely. Have a nice day.