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Welcome to the Ethos FC Community 🙌🏻
Culture is set by the adults. Not by the children. Not by the fixtures, the facilities, or the results. By how the adults in the room choose to behave on the touchline, in the classroom, in the changing room, at pick-up time. Get the adults and the environment right and children thrive. Get them wrong and no amount of good intentions makes up for it. That’s what Ethos FC exists to change. Who this is for? Coaches. Parents. Teachers. Club leaders. Anyone responsible for the environment a young person walks into. You don’t need to be in football. The pitch is where I do most of my work, but the principle travels I’ve spent over 15 years in education watching the same thing play out in classrooms. What we do here • Share what actually works in building character, confidence and culture • Talk honestly about the hard bits difficult parents, touchline behaviour, volunteer burnout, the pressure to win • Work through the ETHOS framework together: Environment, Trust, Honesty, Ownership, Support • Practical resources, session ideas, and conversations you can take straight back to your club or setting What we don’t do Drills and tactics. There are thousands of places for that, but will happily point you in the right direction. This is about the other 90% the bit that determines whether a child comes back next week. To get started: drop a comment introducing yourself. Who are you, where are you, and what’s the one thing about culture in your setting you’d change tomorrow if you could? Glad you’re here and together we will transform lives, communities and have a global impact for good 💪🏻 Paul
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You're first: Founding places in Inside The Dressing Room
Coaching grassroots can be lonely. You give up your evenings and weekends, and most of the time nobody asks how you're doing or what you're trying to build. Inside The Dressing Room is for coaches who care about who their players become, not just how they play. It includes a short course built on the ETHOS framework, a group of coaches working on the same things, and a monthly live session with me. It's usually £20 a month, but for the first 10 people it’s just £10 a month. If you'd like the details, reply IN and I'll message you. No pressure if it's not right for you. This community stays free either way. Paul
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The best coaches I've met say less
Ask a young player what they learned after a session with ten coaching points. You'll usually get one, if any. The best coaches I've met pick one thing per session and say it in a few words. Then they catch players doing it and name it: "Great, you looked up before you passed." That's the session. It feels like less coaching. It's more learning. So before your next session: what's your one point? Drop it in the comments, one word is fine. I read every one.
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Parent places open: will you pass it on?
You see it every weekend. The parent on the touchline who means well and makes it harder. The car journey home that starts before the seatbelt clicks. I've built something for them. The First Thirty Seconds is a short course for grassroots parents: four sessions, done at their own pace. The car journey. Mistakes and effort. What they actually need from you. Being their secure base. The first 20 parents get it for £20 (it'll be £35 after). Every place also helps fund free Hold Up The Mirror assemblies in local schools. You're the best route to the parents who need it, so one ask: reply YES and I'll send you a short message you can paste straight into your parents' WhatsApp group. No pressure if it's not right for your club. Paul
Do we need to do more?
I’m an under 8s coach, but also and more importantly a dad to an under 8 player. I’ve been shocked this season moving into u8s at the increased physicality (all part of the game I know). My question is, as coaches do we need to do more to protect players? Two weeks in a row opposition players have lost it with my son, last week he was kicked to the floor off the ball, today he was grabbed by the neck and thrown the the floor. On both occasions the offending player was subbed off (although today he was brought straight back on after 2 minutes) but can/should we do more? How do we teach kids to handle emotions better to avoid this happening? Should we have better methods of handling this? I get that physicality is part of the game, my son gets kicked a lot as he is a player who likes to run with the ball and take players on, it’s this next level of aggression off the ball that worries me! 🤷‍♂️ Questions…. What would you do if your player lashed out off the ball? What would you do if you were the ref? What would you say to my son if you were his coach? What would you say to my son as his parent in this situation?
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