How can i make my daughter understand that serious of listening the first time. She is very independent and loves to do things herself. However, she quickly finds out that listening to her mom was the best option the first time. This all steams from her having a bad relationship with an adult family memberbin the past who was very controlling, belittling and mean to her in the past. She has been removed from that environment since but she struggles with respect and listening because of this. I have been praying on it abs and i trust GOD to lead the way, i would like some strategies if possible because shes very string willed.