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A Deep Reflection...
Have you ever felt so stuck within yourself or within a relationship that instead of changing the circumstance you just sit with it because it is familiar???
Do you constantly battle with over thinking, or overwhelming thoughts???
Let me tell you that: YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!!
As we grow and evolve our wants and needs change. There will be days where you feel awesome or amazing. There will also be days where the world is too much and you are overwhelmed, and hiding away feels like the safest option because you don't want to burden anyone with the thoughts you think are silly or not important. This is ok but let me tell you the world isn't so heavy when you have a friend sitting next to you in the quiet, so you are not alone.
The thoughts that are burdening you are important, they may not mean anything to anyone else, but it will make your load lighter, maybe all you need is a vent to feel ok again.
In the beginning of a relationship, it is fun, exciting, you get to date and dress up for each other, but after a while that fades - you both stop being there for each other:
- you start choosing comfortable over stylish
- You choose to stay in instead of going out eventually insecurities start making their way into our thoughts and instead of brushing them off we let them seep in
- It starts with a small argument that goes unresolved, then the arguments tend to get bigger but it is still about the unresolved thing.
- You will start to notice a grey cloud threatening to have a downpour
- Then comes resentment and projection, hurt feels and feeling unloved!!!
The happiness doesn’t fade because of the people around us; it fades because of the eggshells we have created around ourselves which then turn into major anxiety.
We can sometimes be so focused on our wants we forget that other people are humans with feelings too and can feel it as much as we do.
I don't educate because I know everything, I Educate because I know that the knowledge I have can make a difference. Even if it is to only one person, I like to give people what I call toolbox gems. And even if you only put one gem in your toolbox,
(maybe instead - that one gem can start you on a journey to bring joy back to your life and relationship) , leaving my seminar with a half-full toolbox is better than leaving with it empty. )
The seminars and confidence workshops I hold are to find the best ways to help you find yourself, find your strengths and give you the courage to maintain your peace, your boundaries and take a deeper look into intimacy within yourself and withing the relationships you have with other people.
I will say this!!!
I can’t fix things for you, but
I know I can help you with the confidence to fix it yourself.
LET’S TALK ABOUT IT…..
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A Deep Reflection...
