Unsatisfied? Good. The First Step is to Celebrate on Purpose
Don't skip this because you're busy. I'm writing this post for you, to encourage you to celebrate on purpose...and to give you the courage, passion, and determination you need today to take at least one step toward getting your book in a new reader's hands. Last night, we held our Marketing Planning Party. And it reminded me that you are in the toughest part of the marketing journey: the middle. The beginning has energy. The idea is fresh. The dream feels close. The possibilities are everywhere. And the wins? Those feel good, too. The finished manuscript. The published book. The beautiful cover. The kind review. The moment when someone says, “This mattered to me.” But the middle? The middle is different. So I just want to say this: I’m proud of you. I’m proud of you for showing up for your book. I’m proud of you for showing up for the readers you haven’t met yet. I’m proud of you for being unsatisfied with mediocity. I'm proud that you are doing the hard work of being in the middle of the process — because the middle is where so many authors lose heart. The middle is where the reward markers are low. The dopamine drops. The excitement fades. The applause gets quiet. The past wins start to feel far away. The future wins are still somewhere out there — a distant point of light you can barely see. And that is exactly why you have to celebrate on purpose. You cannot wait for the world to clap before you acknowledge your progress. You cannot wait for the bestseller badge, the packed signing, the glowing review, the email from a reader, or the big visible breakthrough before you let yourself say, “This matters.” You have to celebrate the small things. The page you wrote.The email you sent.The plan you made.The post you published.The conversation you started.The fear you pushed through.The moment you chose not to quit. Celebrate everything. Not because every step feels dramatic. Most of them don’t. Celebrate because every step is evidence that you are still in motion.