I was about to send a text to my husband concerning something that The Lord showed me and the Holy Spirit stopped me and say intercede. I paused at kind of a loss on what to pray and I heard “I will SHOW you what to pray for him.” Often times we get anxious because of what we see in the natural instead of praying according to what The Lord has revealed to us. Today, I encourage you to spend time with his creator and allow Him to guide your intercession.

In 2024 I was in the most vulnerable situation a spouse could be in, deciding whether to stay or to go. Not deciding physically because my husbands default setting seemed to be to leave anytime staying felt unfamiliar. At the doorway into adulthood he joined the military so for 12 years he lived a detached lifestyle. He had already trained his mind to leave the life he had known for the unknown. Knowing he could be deployed, which is what happened a couple of times, he didn’t form any concrete connections. He learned to travel light, both emotionally and physically. That attachment style showed up in our marriage. So deciding to stay was about my spiritual and emotional position. The answer seemed so clear, after all the culture we live in celebrates walking away as strength and standing firm as, well, stupidity frankly. Who wants to feel stupid? Not me I have a responsibility to empower women to be relevant and strong. I’m Keisha from Decatur! Or so I thought. Right when I was sure that walking away was the most obvious and sensible option the Holy Spirit said do not file for divorce. God hates divorce! In full transparency, I was disappointed. I felt abandoned by God. I felt like someone was playing a cruel trick on me until I realized, wait God is up to something miraculous. Stay tuned for next….

I created this group and froze. I have no clue of where to begin I just know I was supposed to start. Have you ever felt like that? Sometimes starting feels vulnerable and risky. All the questions of what if arise. What if I say the wrong thing? What if I expose too much? What if people misinterpret my truth? The thoughts feel endless, but somehow you find yourself moving forward, one gentle step at a time. This is what this post feels like. The pages from my journal becoming the light for my obedience. If you’re brave enough to show up, then surely God will not leave you or forsake you. So here’s to allowing the Holy Spirit to lead. Let’s go!

Welcome to Hoping Through Divorce 👉This is a faith-centered community for individuals believing God for the restoration of their marriage while protecting their emotional and spiritual well-being. 👉This is a space for wives willing to grow as daughters of God and have a marriage that reflects Gods glory. 👉This is not a space of denial or desperation. It is a space of anchored hope, maturity, and intentional growth. ❤️‍🔥The fact that you are here lets me know that you're courageous, so go ahead and kick things off: 1) Where are you from? 2) What is something amazing about your personality? 3) What are you looking to benefit from this community? 💌 GUIDELINES 💌 *This is a faith-centered space. Conversations should reflect respect, maturity, and spiritual integrity. *We do not use this community to slander, shame, or attack spouses. Processing pain is welcome. Character assassination is not. *What is shared here stays here. Protect each other's stories. *Members may share experiences, but this is not a substitute for licensed legal, medical, or therapeutic counsel. *You are responsible for your triggers, reactions, and healing work. We support growth, not victim mentality. *We stand in faith for restoration while maintaining boundaries, dignity, and mental health. Here, hope is disciplined, healing is intentional, and your well-being matters.