Love shouldnt be manipulative
Love shouldnt be conditional
Love shpildnt be controlling
Love shouldnt be selfish
Love shouldnt be abusive
Love shouldnt be dissmissive of boundaries
Love shouldnt be neglectful
Love shouldnt be judgemental
Love shouldnt be possessive
Love shouldnt be rooted in fear
Man or Woman the above ,this isnt what anybody should ever settle for ,never allow yourself or anybody have the power to shrink you into excepting any of these behaviours .