The old self was chasing ghosts even she knew better. "Please tolerate me Just a little bit then I'll wait forever and rationalize everything about your behavior Just to make you Look better" or: "I know perfectly Well that you're a boring loser with whom I have nothing in Common but you're so unreflected and miserable I Just have to offer my time and Energy for you to be able to continue your boring life Story because Mine can Always wait".
The new self: "Hey good-looking, wanna try being worth my time?"🤭😝🙈 Well honestly, I actually have Many Projects and a few Humans and animals to Take Care of. The biggest Insight from this Challenge for me was how to feel SAFE alone - I let Go of a clingy and emotion-dumping Close friend five weeks ago and since then I'm simply thriving with all this time and Energy. And I let Go of an avoidant crush Just a few days ago by clearly understanding he's Not Safe for my health. I am deeply thankful for this free Challenge Here and I feel fine.