Please read before posting. These rules exist to protect emotional safety. 1. Lead with compassion and respect 2. No unsolicited advice or fixing 3. Speak from personal experience ("I" statements) 4. No comparing or minimizing grief 5. Share only what feels safe—quiet members are welcome 6. Respect faith-based and secular differences 7. Confidentiality is required 8. This is not therapy or crisis care 9. Harmful behavior will be removed 10. There is no timeline for healing