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Let’s Actually Find “Our People” Here 💬

Making friends as an adult can be a challenge. If you’ve ever felt like everyone else already has their "inner circle" while you’re still looking for yours, you aren't alone.

In the book You Will Find Your People, Lane Moore shares a refreshing truth: “It’s not just you.”

She reminds us that lasting friendships don't come from being the most "interesting" or "cool" person in the room. Instead, they grow from small brave moves, honest conversations, and better boundaries.

Embrace Small, Real Interactions

Real connection often starts with simple, low-stakes moments. We don't need a grand gesture to build a bond; we just need to be present.

This week, let’s use the HapiNow Vibn community as our practice ground. Try one of these "Small Brave Moves" today:

Go Beyond the React: Reply thoughtfully to at least two posts instead of just clicking a "like" button.

Reach Out Personally: DM one member and say: “Hey, I really resonated with what you shared about ______. I’ve felt that too. Would love to connect more around that!”

The Big Idea: Finding adult friends becomes an adventure when you stop performing and start connecting.

We don’t have to pretend that building a community is effortless. We’re all here to grow together, set loving boundaries, and take small risks. Your "real people" are closer than you think, sometimes they're just one comment away.

Which of these moves are you going to try first? Drop a comment below and let’s start the conversation.

*Link below Audiobook preview by Google Playbooks

0:00 Intro

0:03 How to Make Friends

20:47 Figuring Out What Kinds of Friendships You Want

35:38 Outro

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