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Why Your "Ultimatum" is Actually an Act of Love

I didn't chase him. I attracted him back to his own Integrity.

For weeks, "client " was stuck in a cycle of Chaos and Futility. He was saying "Yes" with his mouth but "No" with his actions. In the Drives Matrix, this is the "Loser" program—hiding behind shields (family, jobs, fear) to avoid Ownership.

The Shift:

I stopped playing the game. I didn't send a "just checking in" text. I didn't "understand" his excuses. I hit him with the Truth and a hard deadline: Give me your info by 5:00 PM or we are finished.

The Result (Look at the screenshots):

When you stop chasing a man’s potential and start demanding his Integrity, one of two things happens:

1. He disappears (and you stop wasting your time).

2. He cracks wide open.

Andrew didn't just send his info. He admitted he was "super complacent," "scared," and had "lost respect for himself." By holding a Stage 4 standard, I forced him to move from Denial into Acknowledge.

The Lesson:

If I had chased him, he would have kept running. Because I stood still in my Power, he had to walk back to me.

He just committed to the $3,500 investment and is setting our start date now. We aren't just "doing a project"; we are healing the boy so the man can lead.

Stop chasing. Start attracting by holding the Standard

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@Nick Roddam

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