Calling the Shotsβ€”or Playing Our Part?
A single line from a movie has stayed with me.
"We’re all so sure we’re calling the shots in lifeβ€”when maybe we’re just playing our part."
That line is deepβ€”and it lands because it pokes the one illusion most of us protect with our lives: control.
On the surface, we like to believe we’re in charge.
We make plans.
Set goals.
Call audibles.
Declare, β€œThis is my life.”
But that line quietly asks a harder question:
What if we’re not directing the story… but stepping into one already written?
Here’s the tension it exposesβ€”plain and honest:
We choose, but within limits we didn’t choose.
We act, but inside circumstances we didn’t script.
We decide, yet outcomes often arrive uninvited.
That doesn’t make us puppets.
But it does humble us.
It suggests that life isn’t a chessboard we dominateβ€”it’s more like a stage we step onto mid-scene. We’re given a role, a moment, and a responsibility. How we show up matters. But the story itself may be bigger than our ego wants to admit.
Release, Responsibility, and Significance
Here’s where it gets uncomfortableβ€”and freeing at the same time:
Most people don’t suffer because they lack control.
They suffer because they refuse to release it.
When you believe you’re calling all the shots:
Failure feels like a verdict.
Detours feel like injustice.
Waiting feels like punishment.
But when you accept that you may be playing something out:
Failure becomes formation.
Detours become direction.
Waiting becomes preparation.
From a faith lensβ€”and I’ll say this straightβ€”Scripture never paints humans as the Author, but it does cast us as accountable participants.
You don’t write the story.
But you are absolutely responsible for how you play your part.
That’s where significance livesβ€”not in control, but in obedience, humility, and trust.
Or said another wayβ€”quick and clean:
You don’t need to control the story.
You need to be faithful in the scene you’re in.
That line hits because deep down, we know it’s true.
πŸ‘‰ Do you believe we’re directing our livesβ€”or stepping into something already unfolding? Why?
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πŸ‘‰ What’s one area of your life where releasing control might actually bring peace?
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John Wesley Hosier
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Calling the Shotsβ€”or Playing Our Part?