The most important aspect of this course and anything that I teach you is that needs should ALWAYS come before wants. Especially if you are dealing with a woman. Your partner needs to feel seen, understood, nurtured and cared for. Jumping straight to your desires after only rubbing where it hurts for 3-5 minutes is the fastest way to turn your partner off. Besides we are here to learn how to take care of each other not take care of ourselves.