Where does anxiety live in your brain?
The Four Parts of the Brain
Left Thinking Brain-
  • Logical, analytical, organized,
  • language-based.
  • Defines the self ("me," ego, identity).
  • Holds trauma, cravings, and addiction.
Left Emotional Brain-
  • Stores pain from the past and emotional reactions.
  • Where ANXIETY, fear, and trauma loops live.
Right Emotional Brain-
  • Feels the present moment.
  • Experiences joy, love, curiosity, and awe.
Right Thinking Brain-
  • Big-picture, imaginative, creative, and connected to all things.
  • Feels oneness rather than separation.
The Problem with Modern Society
  • Society is skewed toward the left brain—focused on individualism, achievement, and control.
  • This imbalance fuels addiction, anxiety, disconnection, and narcissism.
  • We’ve forgotten the right brain’s gifts: presence, compassion, and unity.
Emotional healing isn’t about shutting off feelings, it’s about understanding and soothing them consciously.
Practices like meditation, breathwork, and mindfulness help shift from left-brain stress to right-brain presence.
1. Recognition (The First Mechanism)
You first need to notice which “character” is currently active.
Each Brain has a "feeling" signature-
  • The Left Thinking Brain feels tight, fast, judgmental, and controlling.
  • The Left Emotional Brain feels anxious, reactive, or defensive.
  • The Right Emotional Brain feels open, playful, connected, and curious.
  • The Right Thinking Brain feels calm, creative, and spacious.
FitnHealthy tip - Simply pausing to name it - “My left brain is running the show right now” - begins to shift activity away from the amygdala (reactivity) and toward the prefrontal cortex (awareness).
2. Pause & Breathe (Interrupt the Circuit)
When you slow your breath, especially exhaling longer than you inhale, you activate the vagus nerve, calming the sympathetic “fight-or-flight” system.This buys you a few seconds to choose differently instead of reacting automatically. Set up timers throughout your day to take "Breathe Snacks"
3. Redirect Attention (Neural Re-Routing)
Your attention is like a spotlight.Where you place it determines which network of neurons fires.
  • Focusing on problems and self-talk activates the left hemisphere.
  • Focusing on sensations, gratitude, color, or sound activates the right hemisphere.
So, when you shift from thinking “What’s wrong?” to “What do I feel right now?”, you literally move electrical activity to a different part of the brain.
4. Conscious Choice (Prefrontal Mediation)
Once the pause and redirection occur, the prefrontal cortex acts like a conductor in a band.
Now select which part you want to lead-
“I choose calm curiosity instead of control.”
“I choose compassion instead of fear.”
"I choose being present instead of focusing on the future or past.
Repeated practice strengthens those neural pathways - this is neuroplasticity or remodelling of the brain in action.
5. Repetition leads to Integration
Each time you consciously choose, you’re teaching the brain a new habit loop.
Pause and notice - Which part of your brain is running your life today?
Share in the comments - Are you leading from logic, emotion, creativity, or connection?
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Where does anxiety live in your brain?
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