9d • General discussion
Setting Boundaries 101
Setting a boundary is direct language with clear, actionable measures and clear consequences, alongside the willingness and self-worth (the most important part) to follow through on those consequences the moment the boundary is intentionally disregarded.
A boundary does not need a “why.”
No is a complete sentence all by itself.
While giving the “why” can sometimes feel like it may help the boundary be received “well,” there are also moments where explaining the why can unintentionally turn the boundary itself into an open discussion rather than a moment to honor and respect the courage it takes to trust a rapport enough to establish a boundary in the first place (depending on context).
Not all boundaries are negative.
Some boundaries are created because the rapport or situation matters enough to protect it as it is.
There’s a safe space in that.
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Setting Boundaries 101
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