Art of Validation using the 3 Faces of Papa God — Lion, Ox, and Eagle — to help men understand how different personalities receive validation. He explains that validation is not approval or fixing, but seeing someone the way Papa sees them and speaking identity, courage, and strength into them. For the Lion man, validation sounds like honoring his courage, mission, and leadership. For the Ox man, validation recognizes his loyalty, consistency, and the weight he quietly carries. For the Eagle man, validation celebrates his creativity, insight, and spiritual sensitivity. Carlos walks the men through how each face gets shut down, what language opens them up, and how understanding these faces helps men lead their families, love their wives better, and strengthen their brotherhood. The teaching ends with a practical challenge for each man to identify his dominant personality and intentionally validate someone this week, also a very personal message to each personality.

Servant leadership is a philosophy where the leader's primary goal is to serve others, focusing on their wellbeing, growth, and development. Physical: Protection and empowerment Lead by example with our own physical health and nutritious eating. Connect to health resources: Help loved ones access necessary healthcare, whether it's scheduling check ups, finding specialist, or offering transportation to appointments. Invest in their well-being: protect followers by ensuring they have the right tools and training for their work, reducing physical risk. For family and friends, this might mean, providing a safe home environment or reliable transportation. Act as a provider: for Family, this means doing whatever it takes to provide food, shelter, and security. Emotionally: Create emotional safety nets. Practice active listening. Show empathy and validation. Model healthy coping skills.Be a source of hope. Mentally: Foster a growth mindset. Simplify constantly. Lead through questions. Foster autonomy. Protect privacy. Relationally: Keep promises and be present. Build trust through consistency. Lead by example. Cultivate mutual respect. Handle conflicts gracefully. Provide recognition and appreciation.

Foundation of Dreams & Mind: When we talk about the future we’re building, everything starts in the mind. Our dreams don’t just appear out of nowhere; they rise from the deepest parts of us. Some come from our basic human needs, some from our curiosity, and many from that God-given pull toward purpose. But no matter where they start, our dreams grow when our subconscious desires and our conscious choices start working together. Our subconscious mind often holds the truth before we do. It whispers our real desires, the ones we sometimes overlook in our busy lives. And our conscious mind, that’s where we decide, “Yes, this is what I want, and I’m willing to go after it.” When those two parts line up, we create a strong foundation for everything we hope to build. Our minds are also belief-makers. What we believe about ourselves, our worth, and our future shapes what we reach for. When we believe we are capable and worthy, our actions rise to match those beliefs. And when we lift our mindset, our life begins to lift with it. How We Bring Dreams to Life To turn a dream into something real, we start with intention. That simply means choosing what we want and focusing on it with clarity. Our thoughts matter; they are seeds. The more we think about a dream with hope and confidence, the more that seed grows. Visualization helps us water that seed. When we see the dream in our mind, when we feel the joy, the excitement, the peace of already having it, we send a powerful signal to the brain: “This is where we’re going.” But dreams don’t grow on thoughts alone. They require action. Steady, consistent, intentional action. This is where discipline, training, and daily habits come in. This is where we “invest” in our dreams with our time, our energy, and our choices. Every step forward is saying, “I’m preparing for what I prayed for.” And when we create space for stillness, through meditation, reflection, or quiet imagination, new ideas rise up. New solutions appear. The path becomes clearer. That’s how we keep nourishing the dream as we move forward.