What is Autism? · Empowered mama

What is Autism?

Autism (or Autism Spectrum Disorder) is a difference in how a child’s brain grows and processes the world. It’s not something a child “catches” or something caused by parenting—it’s just a different way of developing.

What might it look like in a toddler?

Every child is unique, but families might notice differences in a few areas:

1. Communication

Using fewer words, or not yet talking
Repeating words or phrases
Pulling you to what they want instead of pointing or asking
Less back-and-forth interaction (like “serve and return” play)

2. Social interaction

Less eye contact or interest in faces
Prefers playing alone or in their own way
Doesn’t always respond to their name
May not show or share things with others (“look!” moments)

3. Play and behavior

Repeating the same actions (spinning wheels, lining things up)
Very focused on certain toys or topics
Upset by changes in routine
Strong reactions to sounds, textures, or lights (either very sensitive or not bothered at all)

A helpful way to think about it

Many families find this framing useful:

Autism isn’t a delay in wanting connection—it’s a difference in how connection happens.

Your child may absolutely want to connect with you—they just might show it in different ways or need support learning how.

Strengths matter too! Things like strong memory, attention to detail, cool ways to problem solve, honest and genuine interactions, and more!

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