goodbye forever~
in the last 3 months...i tried to do organic lead generation on skool to realize it just wasn't enough to get coaching clients - not that many ppl were interested in scaling a coaching business or just like my red personality
i thought if i pushed as hard as possible i would get clients and in a way i failed to do that
either it's my personality - or the wrong platform/type of coaching - or it just takes longer than i expected
but i did learn a lot and realize i need to build a personal brand on IG and its a btter source of traffic and leads
my engagement pretty much went to 0 because i stopped supporting ppl in their groups - and i didn't want to network with them anymore
i got bored and felt like i was doing a lot more than anyone else was
maybe it's my ego or personality is repelling; critical or condescending - unlikable
but when i got clients the last time i was coaching on facebook; i was actually even more crazy and negative
i think it's a traffic mismatch; trying to coach people who aren't that interested in coaching; skool is a hangout or local interest group
anyway it's been fun - sorry i ghosted everyone in here - it's all been a learning lesson
i am still committed to building my business and will migrate platforms i guess i'm just bored of this lol nobody is engaging or reciprocating so i'm moving on ~
failure doesnt really discourage me because even tho i had a profitable 'business' i still felt like i was failing in life - no connection and really i haven't been all that happy in the past few years i was just obsessed with growth
so i know i need to back into that obsessive output for money and results but all the while it's been about me knowing myself emotionally; radiating more love and healing
everyone liked me when i was supportive; but the traffic just died on here once i talked about high ticket coaching and sales; lol
so they like support; but dont really want the growth
and could just be my personality
then IG - doesn't really seem like that many ppl wanna build a brand on IG either
but i needed to experience these last 3 months to figure out who i am and what i wanna do with my life
anyway since i dont get any engagement its kind of pointless to coach disengaged ppl on here
even if anyone reads my posts whats the point? none really
i dont need a skool group to get clients; i need daily conversations with the right ppl
it's been cool as an outlet to express my thoughts but i'll just do it on facebook since i'm not getting a reciprocation or feedback on here
it causes some self reflection in me---is it just me? i think i was looking for support and i was just lonely a few months ago
but i just can't grow with ppl who don't operate with the same entrepreneurial standards as me
it's not 1 for 1 i can't follow someone i dont want to be like
anyway
do i have to kill this group? no i could make it a $9 plan but if the group isn't giving me energy or value then i kind of resent even being here - a place to share my thoughts with ppl who don't really wanna grow with me lol but maybe read my content from time to time for entertainment?
coaching is tough theres a lot of stagnation and failure or slowness
i feel like i'm having to process an enormous of energy on IG and the slowness of the entire industry
why am i doing performance coaching? because that's what i want to help people with
build a perfect system for a total beginner on how you build a brand and coaching business from nothing
from even having no friends
my red personality is so different from my orange personality lol my red is like - k i have to write this off as a failure or learning experience but now i know what to do
you gotta relentlessly build man
how many hours per day are you spending building your biz and even thinking about biz?
life happens we suffer, we need time to heal and figure things out
then eventually its time to get back to work man
so i'm going to energetically reclaim all the energy i've ever put into skool
i just dont think my personality is the friendliest for having a community
i dont really want to build a community i just want a following and people who value what i'm doing 1/1
it would be cool if more ppl were active but i feel no attraction to invest in anyone that's joined lol
that sounds fucked up or selfish even but it's the truth
i wish you all well in my 'feminine' aspects or spiritually but nobody is really growing i'm not seeing that energy in a single person in this group
so yeah why keep putting energy into something that isn't paying off?
i could say the same thign about IG but i know in my heart and soul it will succeed once i figure out the platform and message
every day is a clean slate to attract new ppl
a group is a place to nurture existing ppl but i dont' even have a pool of ppl yet on IG to even funnel here
and do i even need to funnel them to another page or site ? no i dont i just need ppl who are curious enough to keep looking at my daily content then you retouch ur list
i dont feel like retouching anyone in here lol i dont feel like messaging anyone in this group
so i geuss that makes me a hater but i've pretty much lost interest in this group and probably a lot of ppl feel the same way about me
anyway
the mmebership cancels on the 17th
i guess this will be my last post unless i change my mind
LOL i sound like such a hater - i dont like anyone in here - i dont even like the members here - why are we even here lol
me making content to motivate heal or inspire the world but they dont acknowledge it or reciprocate it or value it
so i'll hvae to think about myself and my strategy....i dont know that i'll ever change i think my message or content strategy just changes
im wearing red this is my red personality
i think i was stuck in this rut on facebook too just making content that nobody looks at
the moment you stop supporting them the engagement tanks
but how can u support someone who you have no interest in being like or associating with?
i guess i was lonely or desperate for friends but i'm just like man we gotta move faster than this
we gotta do better than this come on
anyway - i'm still committed to the process and my dream just changing platforms around
wish you guys the best - sorry i'm such a hater and flawed human being
originally it was soul inspired collective
but what is inspiration without a dream?
and how can you manifest a dream without taking enough actions?
that's the weedout
i need to see relentless activity
cheers; god bless; have a nice life
thanks for the memories
hope all your dreams will come true~
benjamin
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goodbye forever~
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