Imagine going out and shaking hands, slapping high-fives, hugs, head nods, verbal, greetings all over the place everywhere you go… especially to perfect strangers. Just giving and acknowledging to tons of people no matter where you are.
That is social warmth.
Effortless warmth is a concept I’m meditating on these days.
The idea is to strengthen your social warmth muscle so much that it’s very natural and effortless to be warm nearly all the time.
I believe that to be genuinely warm, you need a dose of each of these: vulnerability, sincerity, curiosity, and generosity.
All of these are very positive traits, and with them, everyone wins.
Fear has no place here.