This is a safe space. A few things to keep it that way:
1. Anonymize everything. No real names, no identifying details when sharing messages or stories. Protect yourself and your kids.
2. No legal advice. We can share experience and document patterns, but we're not lawyers. For legal questions, talk to yours.
3. Believe each other. If someone shares something that sounds "too much," it probably happened. Default to belief.
4. No judgment about staying, leaving, co-parenting, or going no-contact. Every situation is different. We support each other's choices.
5. Vents are welcome. Wins are celebrated. Questions are encouraged.
If you see something that doesn't belong here, flag it. I read everything.
— Rae