I have a mentor who asks me all the time, sometimes sarcastically and sometimes heartfelt, "Who is winning?" Sarcastically, when it seems like whatever I'm working on is not going my way, and it appears to be "the other guy" who is winning. ...And heartfelt when they are genuinely rooting for me and my daily achievements. We are on the same team; therefore, they are rooting for me to succeed. But that question, "Who is winning(?)," is a great way to check in and see if you are beating yourself at the game of life or beating yourself up. So in a genuine answer, let me ask you below... Who is winning right now? ... And how can we help?