So we went to the vets to have a check up and the vet seems to thing luns has been at her stitches but she hasn't as she's not even bothered by it at all. I think she's damaging it when she lies on her side as she's thay unfazed now. She does has a cone and a donut but I don't see why she should wear it if she's not going at her wound.
Over all she's fine and has been switched to neutered food that she's not too keen on but she'll get used to it soon.....hopefully.