For the first time, I started looking at this idea differently. I don’t even want to be perfect. Because if I was — where would I grow? Where would I be challenged? Where would the fire come from that keeps me moving forward? Growth is what drives us. So I asked myself — “What do I even have to offer?” And the answer was… a hell of a lot. When you stop beating yourself up for not being perfect, and instead give yourself credit for what you’ve survived, what you’ve learned, and what you’ve done just to still be standing — everything shifts. I’ve overcome a lot. I’ve fought battles that I’ve lost and battles I’ve won — and even the ones I “lost” taught me something. I got life experience. I got perspective. I got stronger. And I didn’t fucking quit. That’s why this community exists. Because all of life’s ups, downs, scars, wins, and lessons make us perfectly imperfect.